The Cost of Following Jesus — Deep Summary
“Whoever does not carry his cross and follow me cannot be my disciple.”
Luke 14:27
This page summarizes five essentials Jesus taught about discipleship and the cost of following Him. It’s anchored in Jesus’ words and in the witness of the Twelve (Peter, James, John, Jude; Acts, Revelation).
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5) Losing Everything to Gain Everything
1) “The World” and Why We Must Turn From It
In Scripture, “the world” is not creation itself but the rebellious value‑system organized apart from God—its cravings, pride, status‑seeking, and confidence in riches. Jesus says His followers “are not of the world” because His word sets them apart (John 17:14–16). He warns that the cares of this world and the deceitfulness of riches choke the word so it becomes unfruitful (Mark 4:19). James states it plainly: friendship with the world is enmity with God (James 4:4). And John commands, “Do not love the world or the things in the world” because its desires pass away (1 John 2:15–17).
This stands in sharp contrast to prosperity teaching. Jesus never equates God’s favor with earthly wealth; in fact, He warns how hard it is for the rich to enter the Kingdom (Mark 10:23–25), commands us to store treasure in heaven (Matthew 6:19–21), and tells the sobering parable of the rich fool whose life ended while he was busy enlarging barns (Luke 12:15–21). The Kingdom reorders loyalties, loosens our grip on possessions, and redirects our hope from present comfort to eternal reward.
Key passages
John 17:14–16; Mark 4:18–19; James 4:4; 1 John 2:15–17; Matthew 6:19–24; Luke 12:15–21; Mark 10:23–25.
2) Abundant Life—But Set Apart From the World
Jesus promises “life… more abundantly” (John 10:10). That abundance is not guaranteed luxury; it’s the overflow of God’s life—peace, joy, love, purpose—while we live set apart. Jesus gives peace not as the world gives (John 14:27) and assures overcoming joy that no one can take (John 15:11; 16:22,33). He calls us to lose our life for His sake in order to truly find it (Luke 9:23–25), even to the point of hating (renouncing ultimate allegiance to) our life in this world so we may keep it for eternal life (John 12:25; Luke 14:26–27,33).
So “abundant life” is holy abundance—the Father’s care (Matthew 6:25–34), a new family of faith “with persecutions” (Mark 10:29–30), the Spirit’s power for witness (Acts 1:8), and the presence of Jesus with His own (Matthew 28:20). It is abundance in trials, not escape from them.
“Truly, I say to you, there is no one who has left house or brothers or sisters or mother or father or children or lands, for my sake and for the gospel, who will not receive a hundredfold now in this time, houses and brothers and sisters and mothers and children and lands, with persecutions, and in the age to come eternal life.”
Mark 10:29–30 (ESV)
Key passages
John 10:10; John 14:27; John 15:11; John 16:22,33; Luke 9:23–25; John 12:25; Luke 14:26–27,33; Matthew 6:25–34; Mark 10:29–30.
3) Why the Way Is Narrow and the Path Difficult
Jesus says, “Enter by the narrow gate… the way is hard that leads to life, and those who find it are few.” (Matthew 7:13–14). The gate is narrow because the call is exclusive: deny yourself, take up your cross, and follow Him (Matthew 16:24; Luke 9:23). He demands undivided allegiance—even above family, possessions, and our own lives (Luke 14:25–33). The path is difficult because it runs against the current of the world and often invites hatred and persecution (John 15:18–21; Matthew 10:16–39). Yet this very difficulty guards the door: it exposes counterfeit discipleship and refines true devotion.
Key passages
Matthew 7:13–14; Matthew 16:24; Luke 14:25–33; John 15:18–21; Matthew 10:16–39.
4) True Faith vs. Fake Faith (Cowardice and Unbelief)
Jesus describes true faith as living, persistent, and God‑centered—like a mustard seed that moves mountains because it clings to God, not to outcomes (Matthew 17:20; 21:21–22; Mark 9:23–24). Genuine faith abides in Christ (John 15:5–7), hears and does His words (Matthew 7:24–27), perseveres under testing (Luke 8:15), and remains faithful unto death (Revelation 2:10).
By contrast, fake faith hears but doesn’t do, sprouts but has no root, or is choked by worldly cares and riches (Matthew 7:26–27; Luke 8:13–14). Cowardice and unbelief are named first among those destined for the lake of fire (Revelation 21:8). Why? Because fear that refuses obedience and unbelief that rejects truth both sever us from the only Source of life. Jesus repeatedly commands “Do not fear” and calls for endurance (Matthew 10:26–33; John 16:33; Revelation 2:10). True faith endures sickness, loss, and even death, anchored in the goodness and authority of God.
Key passages
Matthew 17:20; Mark 9:23–24; John 15:5–7; Matthew 7:24–27; Luke 8:13–15; Matthew 10:26–33; Revelation 2:10; Revelation 21:8.
5) Losing Everything to Gain Everything
Jesus promises that those who leave all to follow Him receive “a hundredfold now… with persecutions, and in the age to come eternal life.” (Mark 10:29–30). He teaches that whoever loses his life for His sake will find it (Matthew 16:25). This gain is qualitatively different: peace in turmoil (John 14:27), joy no one can take (John 16:22), freedom from anxiety through the Father’s care (Matthew 6:25–34), and authority to pray and bear fruit that glorifies God (John 15:7–8; 14:12–14). The apostolic witness matches this: “We must obey God rather than men”—and they rejoiced when counted worthy to suffer for Jesus’ name (Acts 5:29–42).
Key passages
Mark 10:29–31; Matthew 16:24–26; John 14:27; John 16:22; Matthew 6:25–34; John 15:7–8; John 14:12–14; Acts 5:29–42.